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Sugasm #148

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #149? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
People I could hang out with
“But it wasn’t just a story, it was a damn sexy story.”

Red, Hot Ass
“I grunted, but held still.”

Smart Girls Make Better Lovers
“Chicks with brains can make you scream.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Sex Blogging and Writing for the Drawer

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

Sex History
Right To Vibe

Erotic Writing and Experiences
A is for
Adult Party Games – Round One
Adventures in Digital
Balcony fun
The Dinner Party: Part I
Female Waxing
Frisson
Her Glorious Cunt
Lilly and the Construction Crew
Not So Complicated
Sex in Public on Road Trip Day 9
So Wrong….
The Waiting is the Hottest Part. Confession #140

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews

• Anaconda 3: The Offspring dvdrip Christian Blake psp

Every Kind of Sex Available: Exploring The Limits of CyberSex
NYC Sex Bloggers 2009 Calendar

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Impertinent Question: What’s the Kinkiest Thing You’ve Ever Done?
Study HNT

Sex Work
Sex Work and Compassion: Self Hating Client
The Sockjob Goddess Returneth…

Sex Advice
Libido in Older Women
Pregnancy BDSM
Try the Pelvic Slide Position for Maximum Clitoral Stimulation

BDSM & Fetish
A domestic fantasy
A man becomes a fucking machine
Not your usual gangbang.
Playing the scene
Sex Camp 2008: Fiiiiyuuuurrrr!!!

Sex Humor
Fantasy Friday: Ahoy, Matey!

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Autobiography of a Masturbator: Porn O’Graphicus, Part 4
Marriage Failure a Natural Success
Never submit to escort screening
Sex Shop Jitters
Ten Things I Find Extremely Sexy On Men – The Non-Physical Version
What I read at Dirty Words night
Why do I do This?

Ten Things I Find Extremely Sexy On Men – The Non Physical Version

I’m sure by now you’ve seen this Craigslist personal ad.

It got me to thinking about what it is I want in a man. Now, I can never seem to want a particular man for long, but in general the following (in no particular order) seem to consistently tickle my fancy.

Note that I’m leaving physical attributes out of this because I tend to me attracted to a range of physical types and also looks only really go so far as in the case of Mr. Hotstuff. But if you’re dying to know what gets me going physically then refer to this by no means exhaustive list.

1. Sense of humor – A must. I don’t trust those who take themselves or life too seriously. And I love to laugh. Laughing is right up there with fucking and eating for me and can be a potent aphrodisiac.

2. A sense of adventure – I live in fear of becoming stuck in my own rut. I’m not about to become stuck in someone else’s. Any potential partner of mine must be willing to step out of his comfort zone and try new things, both sexually and otherwise.

3. An inclination toward the geeky – Is a huge plus. I’m rarely more turned on than after I’ve had an extensive conversation with a cute guy about comics and geek culture icons. Can you discuss the origins of the X-Men at length? Have an opinion on Wolverine getting his memories back? Excited for the movie version of Alan Moore’s Watchmen? Think Ed Norton made a better Hulk than Eric Bana? Own every single issue of Exterminators? Call me. We can watch Boondock Saints and play video games.
4. Self confidence – Almost to the point of being cocky but still just toeing the line. Confidence makes my panties wet. There are few things more annoying that a man (or any person for that matter) who isn’t sure of himself/can’t think for himself.

5. The ability to listen - And I mean really listen, not just hearing or pretending to listen. Few people know what it really means to be fully present to another human being and what a tremendously loving gift that can be. Sadly, most people are way more interested in talking than listening.

6. Non-judgment - Nothing turns me off faster than a critical, judgmental person, male or female. Vive y deja vivir!

7. Intelligence – This includes being generally well read, quick-witted and a good conversationalist. Basically, if you say “huh” every time I use a word that’s contains more than three syllables, I’m going to start to reassess things.

8. Self awareness and substance – I’ve concluded that consistency is a lot to ask from a human being these days. However, being aware is not. Know thyself. I don’t want to have to tell you who you are. You tell me.

9.  A dirty mind – Or at least the willingness to step into mine.

10. Passion – I was going to say creativity but as long as he stands for something and is not just wandering complacently through life, it’s a good thing.

HNT- Cuffed

Speaks for itself…

HHNT everybody!

HNT – Slippery

Me getting squeaky clean before the calendar launch party. Photo courtesy of Match.

Happy HNT everyone!

Astro Boy release

Sugasm #145

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #146? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Being Civil
“They couldn’t understand what the appeal of a civil union was for us.”

Clandestine Rendezvous
“He turned around to kiss me and I melted.”

Hotel Sex
“The excitement is too much for both of us”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
You Can’t Make This Shit Up, Part 2

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Let’s Pretend…
Masturbaticon I
Our Peculiar Erotica
“Pay No Attention To That Man Behind The Curtain”
Taking Charge of Your Own Pleasure
Tease and Denial: In Defense of Subtlety
Things that make you go Mmmmmm

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Babygate Continues!
Vibrators of the Future

Sex Work
Pillow Humping Cam Pussy

BDSM & Fetish
Arms to the sky
Beads
brock’s Last Task
My surprise for Daddy
Naughty, Naughty…Nice
The New Pet (fiction)
A proper thank you
The Runaround.
Welcome to Kinky Sex Link

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bare back HNT
HNT – Stripping for the Bath Brush – F/m Spanking Pic
Sasha Grey (NewNudeCity)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
8:55 – On My Way…
Asian massage parlors
Awakening
Brains in her cunt
The “Ex-Pat” Love [2nd. Revision]
Fantasy Friday: Lips Like Sugar
Hausfrau
In the Early Morning Darkness
Not Quite Poetry
On the Back of a Motorcycle
Release
Your first time with me

Japanese Sex Doll

You know, I can actually see the appeal of a sex doll. Too bad they don’t seem to make any for women. I’d be first in line for a Johnny Depp doll.