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Another Good Reason To Wrap It Up?

(collecting th best images and video that promote safe sex)

The Exorcism of Emily Rose movie

L.A. Confidential movie download

…or is it?

This video got me thinking.

I’m all about safe sex.

I also LOVE to give head.

The thought of sucking on a condom, however, is not appealing at all (side note: While more than capable of doing so, I usually do not fellate my partner to completion so the spit or swallow dilemma is one I don’t really face..this is for my own selfish reasons of course…I find that most men are useless once you’ve gotten them off with your mouth and so I don’t get them off orally in the interest of keeping the ball rolling so to speak).

I’m interested to here your thoughts on the matter. Weigh in in the comments or take part in my poll.

Sorry, there are no polls available at the moment.

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(This week’s Absolute Favorite HNT is brought to you by Bad Bad Girl

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Heart Full of Black: The Doctor – I love this, honest, non-pretending account of the factors that lead up to Wendy’s decision.

And lets throw some super honesty in. I’m excited about being able to wear high heels again. (I haven’t been able to wear them for the past 60lbs or so. I’m too off balance with weak ankles. They don’t hold me up.) It will be nice to be able to borrow clothes from my mother again. It’ll be great that my boobs might go down a bit (I know they’re only large B’s, but I liked them when they were A’s!). I’d really like to not knock stuff over with my butt. I think these are fair and valid feelings. But they still don’t take away from the fact that I am unhealthy and need help.

Sex In The Public Square: First They Came for the Street Workers – Elizabeth brings up a good point about the slippery slope.

If we don’t stand up for each other, all of us who engage in sexual expression that is stigmatized or criminalized, all of us who engage in sexual exchange outside of socially-sanctioned relationships, we are, all of us, sunk.

Writing Dirty: Wet Spots

• Anastasia: The Mystery of Anna video

– Um…whoa!

At first it is a train of clear water down her thigh and then it squirts like a little torrent. Her body is so overcome she is bucking like a animal trying to escape a trap. It goes on and on until it seems like almost too long, like something is wrong but then suddenly she is still except for her trembling legs.

HNT – Sleepy

Lately, all I want to do is hibernate…

HHNT everyone!

Cinderella Man the movie

Party With The Pinups

In the latest pinup news…

Have you ordered your calendar yet 3000 Miles to Graceland film

Road Trip: Beer Pong movies

Grim Reaper hd ? We’ll be raffling off a super cool OhMiBod every day from now until Saturday so get yours while the getting’s good. Yes that’s right. Buy a calendar and you’re automatically entered to win an awesome free sex toy (as if staring at us lovely ladies all year round wasn’t incentive enough).

If you don’t win, don’t fret. You can get some swag at our launch party. We are bringing this calendar to you in style, folks. We don’t fuck around. There’ll be burlesque dancers, Babeland goodie bags, a cake resembling some part of the female anatomy. Seriously, you need to be there. You can find the details here.

And lastly here’s a sneak peek to reward you all for being so very patient.

Photo by the ever fabulous Stacie Joy

Sugasm #150

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #151? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Stolen Time
“The sigh of a kiss that has been too long waiting is a wicked rush.”

Keeping things hot when everything hurts
“While it’s not as fun for him, what I love about those times is how sexy he makes me feel at a time when I probably feel the most worthless as a lover.”

Like lovers do…
“As soon as I got that groove, he felt it. His body started to tense up and tremble.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
At What Point Have You Crossed The Line?

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday Supercross hd .

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
Catalina loves Sgt. Major from Backdoor Bondage and Kink.com
Click Foreplay
The End of the Sex Writer?
Lust Objectified: Lelo’s Lily Vibe
Sex News Roundup

Sex Work

20 Questions With Janet Jacme
Busy Busy Busy

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Backward (One)

The Five Twenties – The Fifth Twenty
i Kissed a Girl
The love for guys in uniform
Natalie Gets Laid
A Night to Remember, ft. Mariella and VibeReview
Talk Dirty To Me
Will you suck it?
Your Gorgeous Polish Girlfriend Won’t Pose Just How You Imagined

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Boymeat’s Boots
HNT: Lucky Heather 2
Kelly Zhang (Met Art)
Radka – OJ

Sex & Politics
Do BDSM and McCain Go Together Like Vinegar and Oil?
Invasion

BDSM & Fetish
3 days
Punished in the school gym
Sex Camp 2008: The Petting Zoo!
slut to the Mailbox ….. This Morning’s Task as Accomplished Funny Games U.S.
Someplace I’ve never been, part 2

Sex Advice
Man-Handles: What to Do with His Nipples? The Road to Guantanamo trailer

Sadie’s Advice for Craigslist Dating. Confession #151

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Can Group Sex Get Your Man to Clean the House?
Channeling Jessica Rabbit
How I started paying for sex
Present Genitive
Seven Daily Sins: Lust
Trust

HNT- Bedtime Story

I wrote in my previous post about how much I love The Big Penis Book (there is a companion volume called The Big Book of Breasts…it’s next on my list).

HHNT everyone!How to Steal a Million divx Michael dvd

Close Encounters of the Third Kind hd

12 Angry Men buy

In Pictorial Praise of the Penis

Choosing one’s coffee table book requires much thought. You want it to be entertaining. You want it to be pleasing to the eye. You want it to say something about you and the things you love.

Finally, I’ve found mine.

I was perusing my local Borders, the sexuality section of course, when I saw it.

It was monstrous.

It was heavy.

It was a big, thick cock.

On the cover of a big thick book. The Big Penis book to be precise.

I opened it up never giving thought to the possibility that people watching me flip through a book littered with pictures of big cocks might raise some eyebrows. I salivated over page after page of wondrous penises. Long, thick, coming in many wonderful colors and attached to a plethora of beautiful men.

This book is a cock lover’s dream.

In addition to the stunning photography there is also lots of interesting research (yes, I read the words too) on the history of the penis, the large one in particular, and its representations in pop culture throughout history.

Words cannot express how much I love this book. I love to flip through the pages and wonder if any of the men I know have dicks this beautiful. I love to thumb through it and wonder where they found these models. I love to come across a particular page and think to myself “Damn, is that thing even real ?”

Now, seeing as how I don’t actually own a coffee table, my Big Penis Book rests prominently on my couch.

On Saturday, my grandmother (I’ve written about her, the one who thinks I’m going to hell in a hand basket) dropped in unannounced. She woke me up so I didn’t have time to prepare. I let her in and she plopped onto the couch right next to the 10 inch beauty on the cover.

Suddenly, I was having flashbacks to the time she found my box of dildos under my old bed after I’d moved out.

She glanced toward the general direction of the cock but didn’t say anything.  We were both content to pretend it wasn’t there.

Moral: don’t buy this book unless you plan to put your new photographic cock collection proudly on display.

As a side note, I’d like to say that I am not a size queen. Yes, I love a big dick as much as the next gal but I’ve had completely satisfying sex with average sized penises and even those on the smaller side.

Oh and because I’m a black woman, l feel obligated to debunk the myth of the black man’s sexual prowess right now. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had my world rocked by more than my fair share of black men (hi Lorenzo) but my toes have curled and my walls have stretched for black and white (hi Matt) men alike, and everyone in between for that matter (really, as long as you’re working with the right equipment, I’m not particular about what color that equipment is, even if it’s purple and made of plastic).

I digress.

Buy this book.The Exorcism of Emily Rose Ballistic: Ecks vs. Sever What Love Is the movie

The Pagemaster trailer

The World Air Sex Championships

Dakota Skye psp

Dog Tags movies Funny Games U.S. divx

The Falcon and the Snowman movie

I know I’m late with this but it was way too funny not to post.

I’m inspired.

Sugasm #149

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #150? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Art of the Cunt
“The point of the abstraction was so that they, although anatomically correct, are hidden enough in colouring and some of the external shapes to hide the image for what it is.”

Come Get Your Knife
“”Do you trust me?” I asked.”

Tangle of Limbs There is Softness
“But I know myself, I know my desire.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Sugarbutch Star: Eileen

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

Sex Humor

I’m suspending my campaign…for a domme

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
A Day in the Life of… an Indie Rocker
Escort rules/client rules
Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy-#9
Fucking Words
Shame on You

Sex Advice
How to Talk Dirty

BDSM & Fetish
Bang The Bum Harder
Fucking and Flogging
How To Train Your Slave
Ins and (Mostly) Outs of Public Displays of Kink
Like a $20 Whore
She disappears
Submission

Sex Work
Is calling a phone dominant or seeing a pro domme cheating?
The Land of the Misfits
Princess Pussy Panties for Sale!

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Foot and Converse Sneaker Fetish

HNT- Hand In Glove

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
Catalina loves Kink.com CEO Peter Acworth
Happy Bisexual Awareness Day
Lingerie & Lipstick Lesbians ~ It’s Two, Two, Turn-Ons In One!
A Review of Vibereview’s Japanese Silk Love Rope

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Cliched Sex Funny Games U.S. download
Coming into Queerness – Toybox
Fetish Fair Fleamarket and Ellie Lumpesse – What a Weekend!
Heavy Metal
I Think We’re Alone Now
I’m imagining you
Monday Mirage (It’s back!!!)
Nothing Beats a Free Massage Dog Tags move
There’s a First TIme For Everything. Confession #146
Trading my ass p2

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Smut And Steff: Don’t Mind Her; It’s Just Hormones – Steff brings up an excellent point in this post. Not many think about how difficult it is at times for a woman to understand her own hormones and make sense of her moods.

Maybe, just maybe, if more men stopped trying to understand periods and women’s hormones, and just started realizing that it pisses us off and baffles us too, and just cut us a little slack when these phases transpire, life would be simpler for both of us.

The Frisky: Seven Realities of Shacking Up – My thoughts on this subject have been well documented.

You might figure shacking up kills two birds with one stone:

1. It’s a brilliant way of proving you are serious about making a commitment without having to fork out a Donald Trump-sized fortune for a diamond ring.
2. You can literally save bundles sharing the rent, food and utilities. Plus you will have sex on tap and a personal chef.

Of course you know you’re going to have to be a bit more considerate and share your prized possessions, but are you really ready for the realities of shacking up with your girlfriend?

Jezebel: 75 Books Every Woman Should Read: The Complete List – Some great classic reads on this list. This should keep me busy for quite some time to come.

A few notes on the compendium of 75 that you helped us compile below. As we said in the original post, most of the extant rosters of must-read classics are full of old white dudes. So our list is going to be mostly women.

Scanner: The 99 Most Degrading Sex Acts – Not sure if this is amusing or disturbing. Probably some combination of both. Is it sick if I actually want to try some of these?

You’ve heard of The stranger, teabagging, and and The Dirty Sanchez.

But what about the Western Grip (“When jerking off, turn your hand around, so that your thumb is facing towards you. It is the same grip that rodeo folks use; hence, western.”) or the Split Pissonality (“When you’re taking a leak and you get two streams out of the one hole!”)?

Feministe: Shall We Talk About Privilege – Wow. Beautifully written and not afraid to ask the tough questions.

Owning privilege is not about feeling ashamed, it is about acknowledging the benefits that one receives without having to work for them.  It is about realizing that people born to different circumstances will not receive these benefits as a consequence of our skewed understanding of worth and value.  It is further about realizing that no matter how many good and charitable works I perform, my body will always exist with privilege.  No matter how often I donate my time to food banks or homeless shelters, I cannot undo the class privilege into which I was born.

Open Source Sex: Feeling Blue And Dreaming – Absolutely gorgeous images.

A couple days ago I was feeling especially low and wanted to slip away into dreams forever, so I took some self-portraits with my Ocean.

Shoot the Projectionist: Recuperating Frankenstein’s Creature as a Drag Icon – Brilliant post. I am always happy when my sex nerd side and movie geek side get to interact so deliciously.

Frankenstein made his creature out of disparate parts, and so it contains within its physique multiple identities. It was then assigned a gender, though it was provided no corresponding partner, no completion to the binary implied by the designation of Frankenstein’s Creature as a ‘he.’ Perhaps these attributes suggest a more appropriate comparison with transgender or transsexual individuals. I don’t reject the potency of this metaphor; however, it is the performativity of the Creature’s identity assumption that holds the greater interest for me, and leads me to situate him within the same cultural space as the drag queen.