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Link Lovin’

The Frisky - Ten Movie Dorks We Totally Loved - For all the women out there like me who absolutely love dorks. I think it would be so cool if McLovin were my boyfriend.

If You See Something - Three Kinds of Sex - A clever visual aid. Funny.

Violet Blue: Open Source Sex - Prayers of Boobies Worldwide, Answered - Wondering how they’ll go about determining sizes for these. I’m sure I’ll have to get mine custom made.

Sexuality Happens  - Why I Don’t Really Want Gay Marriage - This echos some of my own feelings about marriage.

Happy Weekend!

Link Lovin’

NYT - Marriage, Divorce and Alzheimer’s Risk - Another plot by the government to get us all married off.

Gawker - Volunteer Bloggers: Stop Subsidizing The Entire Internet - While I’m not against writing for free in some cases, I do feel that writers get abused.

Violet Blue: Open Source Sex - The 10 Commandments of Writing Smutt - Read this and thou shalt improve thy smutt.

The Kivin Method: Guaranteed Orgasm for Women - Uh, women found the secret to guaranteed orgasms ages ago. It’s called the Hitachi Magic Wand.

Cool Hunting - Spray-On Condom - Not sure if this is cool or creepy.

Jezebel - When Did You Discovered That You’d Morphed Into Your Mom? - Lord know I tried to fight it, but it happened anyway.

BOINKOLOGY - Gentlemen Prefer A Size 12 - YAY!

Link Lovin’

FOX News - Why Female Chimps Shout During Sex - I knew I was making all that noise for some reason. Evolution has an explanation for everything.

Jezebel - Let’s Talk About Sex(ually Transmitted Diseases) - Props for even broaching this topic.

Fuck: A Love Story - Risk Assesment (or I’ll manage your assets, baby) - For those who love to fuck around at work.

Jezebel - The Emotional Conquistador is the New Sexual Conquistador - “I’d much rather be fucked than fucked with..” profound

New Times - Sexual Healing - And so this is legal? That’s not at all inconsistent..

Indiscretion - Revision - For all the times you wish you asserted yourself sexually

Link Lovin’

FUNKYBROWNCHICK - How to Love a Submissive Man - ‘Cuz I sure loves me some!

Beautiful and Depraved - Sasha Grey on the Beauty of Blow Jobs - Unabashed and unapologetic

Newsweek - It’s Hotter Away From Home - I’m about due for a vacation.

Huffington Post - Why Housework Will Get You Some - I can attest to this.

Tango - How to Be a Better Kisser - I totally agree with the notion that kissing can be more intimate than sex. I reserve kissing for the extra special.

Jezebel - Unicorns, Easy-Bake Ovens, and Vibrators, Or: I Believe In The Radical Possibilities Of Pleasure - Of for the days of my Easy-Bake Oven. What ever happened to that thing? Anyway, I agree wholeheartedlt that there are many things that don’t suck about being a woman.

Link Lovin’

Stacey Lawson on Huffington Post - Love The One You’re With - Profound because way too many people refuse to see their lovers for who they are.

US News - Can You Afford a Baby? - I don’t know whether this is resourceful or ridiculous.

NY Times - Media Charged With Sexism in Clinton Coverage - Of COURSE the media coverage was sexist.

LUSTY LADY - Video Interview about Erotica and Dirty Girls - RKB is so frickin’ cute.

Jezebel - An Open Letter to Those Awaiting the Rapture - I can laugh about this now but when I was younger, my grandma had me sacred shitless with stories of the Rapture. Who knows? She might have the last laugh after all…in an email.

NY Times - What Women Want (Maybe) - We like what we like. No need for labels. Still, an interesting read.

Heart Full of Black - HNT Josie’s Room - Oh! The purple panties!

Wired - Tech Helps Soldiers with Invisible Wounds of War - As if we needed another reason to bring the troops home.

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Jezebel - Toby Young: Sex and the City Depicts An “Essentially Pre-Feminist Society” - Good insight here. I, for one, was too busy studying Carrie’s outfits to notice.

Synecdochic- Don’t Be That Guy - Heartfelt thanks goes out to Synecdochic for so clearly defining “that guy”. Makes you realize there are way too many of them out there.

Man and Wife - Episode 70: Ladies Night - The girls are talkin’!

Best Sex Writing - Interviews about Sex 2.0 -  Hope to see more of these

Jezebel- ANTM: And the Plus-Size Girl Takes the Cake - I’m not a small chick and so I feel Whitney’s victory is a victory for all the not small chicks out there. But really…this is what’s called “plus sized”?

Urban Gypsy - Desire -  Sound advice dispensed here.

Pretty dumb things - Foot in Mouth -  Reminded me of my foot fetish modeling days.

LUSTY LADY - Dear Writing, a love/hate letter -  Writing and I are in a good place in our relationship right now but it wasn’t always that way. As the Lusty Lady can tell you, he’s a fickle friend.

BOINKOLOGY - The Lady Is A Tramp - I laughed out loud.

Link Lovin’

Bad Bad Girl - Tied Up and Twisted- HNT: My fave pic of the week. Too hot for words.

Pretty Dumb Things - On Being Fingered With Rings: Definitely not what it sounds like. I really identified with this one having been “the other woman” more times than I care to admit.

Curvaceous Dee - Raunchy Review: The Spider Garden: I love comics and graphic novels. Have since I was a little girl. I’ve only recently gotten into the erotic comics thing. After reading this, I decided to check this book out.

Jezebel - The Sexist Business of Sex Writing - After reading this, I hand my hand in the air wanting to testify like an old Caribbean woman at church. I think we’ve all been here and this post articulates the frustration we feel at times to a tee.

Feministe - Food Is A Feminist Issue - I’m a foodie and I work in the industry and so most days my job is fun. But I also get to see first hand what’s happening and not just in America as the price of food continues to rise and that’s not so pleasant.

Babeland - Sex and My Mom - Because Mother’s Day is Sunday. And because I’m still waiting for “the talk” myself.

Always Aroused Girl - It All Adds Up - Kudos to AAG. I wished I had learned at an early age how to communicate my boundaries and desires.

Link Lovin’ - Things I’ve Read and Loved This Week

Lots of commentary on race matters this week.

Happen2bBlack - Are Those Who Only Date Outside Their Race Racist - Some very provocative thoughts here. Conversation that needs to be had.

FUNKYBROWNCHICK - Interracial Dating: The Brown Chick Who Sometimes Dates White Dudes - I for one am all for the swirl!

LUSTY LADY - White people and racism - The Lusty Lady weighs in on the whole Seal Press controversy

And other things…

FUNKYBROWNCHICK - How I Date Safely Online - Critical information for those of you who’d rather not end up an after school special statistic.

Smut and Steff - Putting the “Play” Back into Playing with Yourself - Great advice here. Masturbation doesn’t have to be a wham bam thank you mam affair.

Heart Full of Black - Gross Spelling Errors Turn Me Off - The Grammar Nazi in me really identified with this one.

Sexual-Eccenricity - The Rude Boy Review - The visual I got while reading this made me want to play with myself.

Urban Gypsy - The Therapy Diaries Joint Session No. One - An inspiring read about a married couple trying to work things out and stay together.

Link Lovin’

Babeland: Design Your Own STD Prevention Underwear - Because loves do need instructions and safe sex is important. But the best prat about this post is the cute video. And who doesn’t love a contest?

Urban Gypsy: Adventures in Dermablend - From one busty chick to another. The story is funny and the pics are great.

Sex in the Public Square: The Sex Commons Wiki - I think it’s a wonderful idea.

Naked City: Porn for Women, Please - A great article for women who are into porn but underwhelmed by their current options.

Boinkology: What Makes a “Promiscuous” Girl - The word “slut” traditionally has very negative connotations. Some choose to redefine the word for themselves. Lots of lively discussion going on here.