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Another Good Reason To Wrap It Up?

(collecting th best images and video that promote safe sex)

The Exorcism of Emily Rose movie

L.A. Confidential movie download

…or is it?

This video got me thinking.

I’m all about safe sex.

I also LOVE to give head.

The thought of sucking on a condom, however, is not appealing at all (side note: While more than capable of doing so, I usually do not fellate my partner to completion so the spit or swallow dilemma is one I don’t really face..this is for my own selfish reasons of course…I find that most men are useless once you’ve gotten them off with your mouth and so I don’t get them off orally in the interest of keeping the ball rolling so to speak).

I’m interested to here your thoughts on the matter. Weigh in in the comments or take part in my poll.

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Ten Things I Find Extremely Sexy On Men – The Non Physical Version

I’m sure by now you’ve seen this Craigslist personal ad.

It got me to thinking about what it is I want in a man. Now, I can never seem to want a particular man for long, but in general the following (in no particular order) seem to consistently tickle my fancy.

Note that I’m leaving physical attributes out of this because I tend to me attracted to a range of physical types and also looks only really go so far as in the case of Mr. Hotstuff. But if you’re dying to know what gets me going physically then refer to this by no means exhaustive list.

1. Sense of humor – A must. I don’t trust those who take themselves or life too seriously. And I love to laugh. Laughing is right up there with fucking and eating for me and can be a potent aphrodisiac.

2. A sense of adventure – I live in fear of becoming stuck in my own rut. I’m not about to become stuck in someone else’s. Any potential partner of mine must be willing to step out of his comfort zone and try new things, both sexually and otherwise.

3. An inclination toward the geeky – Is a huge plus. I’m rarely more turned on than after I’ve had an extensive conversation with a cute guy about comics and geek culture icons. Can you discuss the origins of the X-Men at length? Have an opinion on Wolverine getting his memories back? Excited for the movie version of Alan Moore’s Watchmen? Think Ed Norton made a better Hulk than Eric Bana? Own every single issue of Exterminators? Call me. We can watch Boondock Saints and play video games.
4. Self confidence – Almost to the point of being cocky but still just toeing the line. Confidence makes my panties wet. There are few things more annoying that a man (or any person for that matter) who isn’t sure of himself/can’t think for himself.

5. The ability to listen - And I mean really listen, not just hearing or pretending to listen. Few people know what it really means to be fully present to another human being and what a tremendously loving gift that can be. Sadly, most people are way more interested in talking than listening.

6. Non-judgment - Nothing turns me off faster than a critical, judgmental person, male or female. Vive y deja vivir!

7. Intelligence – This includes being generally well read, quick-witted and a good conversationalist. Basically, if you say “huh” every time I use a word that’s contains more than three syllables, I’m going to start to reassess things.

8. Self awareness and substance – I’ve concluded that consistency is a lot to ask from a human being these days. However, being aware is not. Know thyself. I don’t want to have to tell you who you are. You tell me.

9.  A dirty mind – Or at least the willingness to step into mine.

10. Passion – I was going to say creativity but as long as he stands for something and is not just wandering complacently through life, it’s a good thing.

Japanese Sex Doll

You know, I can actually see the appeal of a sex doll. Too bad they don’t seem to make any for women. I’d be first in line for a Johnny Depp doll.

Sex and Socks…80/20

Funny how I never really thought of this.

I’m surprised that the majority of people are bothered by the whole sex during socks thing.

I never even gave it much thought until I ran across the poll.

Gee, I guess I was always to busy enjoying the sex itself to worry about whether or not to take my socks off (*resisting urge to make extremely corny joke*).

Yes socks are certainly counter productive if there’s foot worship involved but other than that I’d skip the socks debate and get to the more important stuff (like the actual sex).

It’s the 80/20 rule.

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Corsets Are Cool

Image via Wikipedia

I decided I’m in the market for a corset. I’d always admired this article of clothing. I’d seen it on women numerous times but never dared to want one for myself.

I’m over it now.

I was fooling around online and looking at designs. So far, I really like the stuff at Absolute Corsets.

Of course, I’m sure I have to get mine custom made in order to do right by my girls, but these are the styles that have moved me so far.

The color on this one is amazing:

I love the design and plunging neckline on this one:

And if I’m feeling particularly naughty, I’ll throw in a corset dress like this:

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Cock Rings – A User's Guide

Cock ring or cockring (n)

• The Dark move

– a ring that is placed around a man’s penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually designated as a testicle cuff. (via Wikipedia

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Cock rings are not just for those with erectile dysfunction. More and more men are getting into the idea of sex toys (a good thing) and a cock ring is a good place to start. Especially since they can be used alone (to enhance a good wank) or with a partner.

Personally, I’ve had many a positive experience with cock rings. They’re a lifesaver when you want to keep a man’s ego (and other parts) from “deflating”. They also provide a different sensation. While I love a flesh and blood penis, they can’t always give the resistance of a good glass, metal or wooden one. When paired with a cock ring however, the flesh and blood penis takes on a newer, stiffer feel.

Cock rings are made from several different types of material. These include leather, nylon, metal, rubber or silicone. I personally really like the silicone variety. There are also cock rings that vibrate or house a vibrating bullet designed to provide the female with extra clitoral stimulation. I’ve had no luck with these so if anyone knows of a really good one, let me know in the comments.

For safety’s sake, don’t wear your cock ring too tight or for too long. If your balls start to feel funny (numb, cold etc.) take it off. Also, if you have cardiovascular problems or are taking blood thinning medications, you probably shouldn’t play around with one of these.

The Dark

Outsource your sex life Part 2 (the extreme makeover edition)

I admit that I thought that scene in Bladerunner  (when Harrison Ford violently and passionately makes out with the robot chick) was very hot.

I also admit that sometimes I feel cheated by futuristic movies like Bladerunner.

It’s the year 2008 already. Where are the flying cars? The push button houses?

Films like this certainly had me thinking the world would be a lot more… well… futuristic by now.

And then I came across this article and bit my tongue.

Well the upside is, you can now have everything you’ve always wanted in a man (and when you change your mind, you can change him too).

The downside is that he won’t exactly be a man, no matter how much he looks and acts like one (ahem, Bladerunner, and now I’m thinking all sorts of creepy thoughts that look like a cross between The Matrix and a bad porno).

I for one hope I’m never that hard up.

And I wonder what this implies for the future of sex workers.

Could the world’s oldest profession actually be rendered obsolete?

• El Cartel

Phone Sex Grandma

The Ghost and the Darkness trailer

All I can say is wow.

The Brawn and the Brains

I’ve been thinking a lot about what turns me on.

I met a guy about a month ago. We’ll call him Hotstuff.

I salivated when first I saw him. Tall, muscular beautiful eyes, all around gorgeousness.

He must have felt me ogling because he turned around abruptly and looked right at me. I tried quickly to change from the I’d-sure-rip-you-apart face I was undoubtedly making to a more normal one.

He walked up to me an introduced himself and we talked later on that day. He hailed from the Midwest, I, from the City. We discovered we both have a thing for dragons as demonstrated by the tattoos we’d chosen.

My coochie was jumping furiously. We went to the movies a week later, followed by a heavy make out session at my apartment. I behaved and sent him home but with a note to self that I’d hit that in the very near future.

Hotstuff and I hung out a couple times more and in that time one thing became painfully clear. Despite being smokin’ hot, Hotstuff needed a personality injection.

Pity. Good looks really only go so far.

So, still undecided on whether I’d play with Hotstuff, I called up Chuck.

Chuck and I had a wonderful conversation. We always do.

See, Chuck is only about half as hot as Hotstuff. Actually, he’s not hot at all. He’s what you’d call cute.

But his personality (a little too much personality at times) makes him twice as sexy as Hotstuff in my book.

So I decided to play with him instead.

And well…you know what happens next.Rollerball move

2008 New Years Sexual Resolutions

OK I know I’m a tad late on this one.

I’m really not big on the whole New Year’s resolution thing.

Working on self and life is a process and one that is best approached by taking baby steps.

At least that’s how it is for me.

I have some projects I’d like to see come to fruition this year.

But these haven’t been at the forefront of my mind the past couple days.

No, that would be sex.

My hormones have been positively raging since the breakup and I find myself feeling amorous at the most inopportune moments. And so in an effort to improve my sex life in the new year, (well after I get one of course- am I starting to sound bitter about this?) I’ve made some sexual resolutions.

1. Get some really nice new panties and sexy pajamas. Gives me an excuse to shop and I deserve to feel sexy, even and perhaps especially if there’s no man around.

2. Hold out longer. I know this sounds counterproductive because the idea is to have more sex but I’m focusing on quality not quantity. Sex is better when you really want a particular person and it is less so when you just cave in to biology and hop on the first available thing around.

3. Watch more porn. It inspires me. Ditto dirty books.

4. Get more comfortable with giving directions. A lover, after all, is just that and not a mind reader.

5. More butt play. This needs no explanation.

6. Get out more. This should have been first. Lovers don’t just show up at your doorstep (unless, of course, you order them).

7. Get some new toys. There are some higher end beauties I’ve been dying to try. No love like self love.

Have a happy, freaky, sexy,  kinky (but safe) New Year everyone!