Amazing artwork, Map of Canada and the US,  by Oupelay on DeviantArt, please check out the rest of his fantastic gallery.

You’ve just flipped the January  page on your 2010 Sex Blogger Calendar, whispered a fond farewell to the lovely Mia Martina, and greeted the awesome Abiola Abrams, who graces February’s page, and here I am about to talk to you about 2011.  If it seems early to you, you’re not alone; it seems early to me too.  But 2011 is going to be a bigger and better year, hopefully for all of us, and certainly for this amazing project that started as a whim, a fun project with friends that would benefit our sex positive community, one balmy summer night.

Many of you, after seeing our fabulous calendar or coming to our kick-ass launch party, expressed an interest in being a model.  We heard you and we want to give you the opportunity to be even more involved.  So for 2011, we’re going NATIONAL!  Yes, you heard it right, the NYC SexBlogger Calendar wants to be even more inclusive in 2011.  We want any sex positive blogger/internet personality - male, female, gay, straight, queer, trans, any race, any orientation, any size - who writes/podcasts/video blogs about sex or sexuality to feel free to submit a photo.  While our 2010 models are free to submit a photo, we’d like nothing better than to get thirteen brand new faces and their accompanying hot bods. I’ll get into those details in a moment, but that’s not the only change we’ve made.

For the last two years, the calendar proceeds have gone to Sex Work Awareness and allowed them to fund Speak Up!, a one day seminar in 2009 that expanded to a weekend in 2010.  We are so proud to have provided the funding for those events.  Megan Andelloux, in her fight with the town of Pawtucket, RI to open her adult sex education facility, The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health, used the training she received last year which helped her win battle and CSPH is now open for business. This year, we’re thrilled to announce that the funds raised by the calendar will go to Woodhull Freedom Foundation. Woodhull Freedom Foundation Affirms SexualFreedom as a Fundamental Human Right!

We’ve known of and been supportive of WFF but when we met and talked with the board members and advisory committee of WFF at their fundraiser, a diverse group including the fabulous Carol Queen, we were really impressed with them, their professionalism and their goals.  WFF has a broader focus than SWA and we want our little calendar to benefit all kinds of sexual freedom.  In changing core attitudes, defining sexual freedom as a basic human right, sex workers too will reap benefits.

Now, how do you submit a photo and what is expected if we pick you to be in the 2011 calendar?

First, you email us one or more professional quality photo that represents what sexual freedom means to you or how you express your sexual freedom.  The photo is to be 12 x 12 (this is SQUARE, people, be sure to let the photographer know this in advance of shooting, most photos are rectangular, so the photographer has to look with a different eye in order to shoot for square artwork).   The format will be CMYK, 12 x 12 full bleed, 300 DPIx 12 full bleed image. If you’d like to discuss concepts before working with a photographer, please email me at Tess@tiedupevents.com

Along with your photo, please send a short bio and a short (or long, if you’re feeling particularly verbose on the topic) post talking about how your photo represents your sexual freedom.  We would like all entrants to be able to attend our launch party on November 5, 201o in NYC, this is one reason we’re giving you all so much notice, so that plans can be hatched and funds reserved.  You’ll be required to post a button on your site that links to the calendar blog and once chosen, we’ll provide a special button for models.

Because we want to also support our economy as well as our fundamental right to sexual freedom, despite our difficulties last year, we are committed to printing the calendar in the US of A, we’re not sure how much nudity we can get away with.  If you feel like baring it all, we’re right there with you but we also need to be realistic about what we can get printed, so please give us some softer options.  Last year, the mere sight of nipples in two photos caused a printer, even in this economy, to turn down the job.

Please include in your email any suggestions you have for promoting the calendar and WFF on your site -contests, etc. Working with us in promoting the calendar is an important component of being a part of this project.

Submissions must be received by May 1, 2010.

More details will follow and we’ll post the Photo Submission Guidelines on a separate page so you can review them easily.

In the meantime, if you’d be so kind as to repost this far and wide, from sea to shining sea, we’d be most appreciative.  Let’s get everyone who believes that sexual freedom is a fundamental human right talking and participating in this project and sharing in the fun with us.

Do you have a fetish?

YourTango is looking for personal essays from
people with sexual fixations on objects, ideas or body parts. We want to get inside your head and learn what you think and feel about your
proclivity and how it affects your relationships.

Your preference can be common or unknown—cross-dressing, erotic
asphyxiation, plushies, pony play, etc—all are welcome. You can be an
intense fetishist—you need to incorporate your preference into every
sex act in order to experience pleasure—or someone who enjoys the
activity but doesn’t require it for pleasure.

We’re not looking for erotic writing or graphic descriptions of what
goes on in your bedroom, although the essay will probably need an
overview of how a particular preference works. Instead, we want to understand the psychology behind your desire.

Some questions to get you started:

When did you discover you had this preference? How did you begin to
incorporate into your sex life? When did you first suggest it to a partner, and how did that person react? If you’re single and dating,how do you introduce the idea to a new lover? If you’re married or in a long-term relationship, how have you incorporated it into your sex life? Has the fetish ever caused disagreements or fights between you and a partner? Has it brought you closer to someone? What are your
emotions surrounding your fetish? Would your love life be different
if you didn’t have this preference?

We also welcome pitches from fetish newbies or one-timers—you don’t
need to be a knowledgeable insider to tell an insightful, interesting story. Write about doing something you’d always thought about but had never tried, or the time a date asked you for a sex act you’d never heard of, or attempting a wacky idea with your partner just for the heck of it. Did you like it, or decide it wasn’t for you? What did you think and feel before, during and after the act? How did you talk
about it with your partner? Did it bring you closer together or
further apart, or neither? Did you learn anything from the experience?

Send pitches to Nicole Perri, Nicole@yourtango.com. Thanks!

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Grim Reaper hd ? We’ll be raffling off a super cool OhMiBod every day from now until Saturday so get yours while the getting’s good. Yes that’s right. Buy a calendar and you’re automatically entered to win an awesome free sex toy (as if staring at us lovely ladies all year round wasn’t incentive enough).

If you don’t win, don’t fret. You can get some swag at our launch party. We are bringing this calendar to you in style, folks. We don’t fuck around. There’ll be burlesque dancers, Babeland goodie bags, a cake resembling some part of the female anatomy. Seriously, you need to be there. You can find the details here.

And lastly here’s a sneak peek to reward you all for being so very patient.

Photo by the ever fabulous Stacie Joy

Allow me to rant.

Exhibit A:

Just about any Johnny Depp character will do but we’ll go with his portrayal of Don Juan DeMarco, world’s greatest lover, for emphasis. Ignore the fact that he’s dressed like it’s Halloween.

The songs tell you “you’ll always be my endless love” but most times what you really get is “bitches ain’t shit but hos and tricks”.

I remember visiting my ex’s parents out West. There was a large group of us at breakfast and my ex was lovingly telling the story of how we met. He ended the vignette by saying..”a match made in heaven”. I tried to catch myself before I made the face but the reaction was immediate. “Sometimes” I said in rebuttal. An uncle of his just laughed and said to me that there probably isn’t a woman on earth that thinks men are wonderfully infallible. “We’re screwing something up about every hour,” he said and went on to say that he admired the female gender’s patience with the men.

In general, I think that what people tend to expect form relationships and from their partners is just too much. Ordinary people aren’t always perfect and consistant. They’re not always considerate. They don’t always know what you want to need before you tell them and even if they do, who’s to say they’re capable or even willing to deliver it.

I know I’ve been a little scare ’round these parts lately. Lot’s going on. Working on a book proposal, busy month at work, new lover etc. (will definitely be writing much about the new lover soon).

But I’m back. And for those of you in the area, or coming to the area, remember there’s a big party this Friday.

You simply must come dahling. Everyone’s going to be there!

There’ll be some good naughty swag for out first 100 guests and the chance to win more. Check the blog for the latest list of raffle prizes.

Here’s the trailer video:

Launch party this Friday, November 14 6:30 to 9:30 @ The White Rabbit, 145 East Houston St.

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Reasons I love this scene:

-Johnny Depp

-Hot makeup sex after a heated argument

-Johnny Depp

-The stairs – my first though was “I’m gonna have to try this fucking up the stairs thing”

-Johnny Depp

- Donnie’s face when his wife says “I’m here”

-Johnny Depp

Apparently there’s this new meme thingy going around. And I guess it’s my turn because I got tagged by that sexy muthafucka, Jack.

Here are the commandments:

-Thou shalt link to your tagger and list these rules on your blog.

-Thou shalt share 7 facts about yourself on your blog – some random, some weird.

-Thou shalt tag 7 people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their blog.

-And let them know they have been tagged by leaving a comment on their blog.

And without further ado…

1. My absolute favorite food in the whole wide world would have to be eggs. I can and often do eat eggs in some form every day (really, it’s a wonder I have normal cholesterol levels). i consider making someone eggs the morning after one of the highest expressions of affection. I’m working on several cookbooks right now and one of the contains solely egg recipes.

2. I am of Caribbean decent. My mommy’s side of the family is from Barbados and my daddy’s side is from Jamaica. I lived in Jamaica for a little over a year, and like many I’m a first generation American. My accent only comes out if I’m pissed (a rarity since I’m slow to anger) and I really only speak Patois around family. I find the majority of people’s impressions of the Jamaican accent to be severely annoying.

3. I have a thing for knives. I pretty much always carry at least one, and I’ve got a little collection that I plan to display on my wall (once I obtain a sword that is). I know this will seemingly contradict what I said earlier about being slow to anger, but I’m what you’d call a “stabby” person. No, I don’t get angry easily. But when I do, you’d better make sure there are no sharp edges around. Ask my ex fiancee. He’ll tell you…

4. I am an ass woman (that sounds funny). You know how you always see guys on the street turn around and look at the asses of the women who walk by them? Well, that’s me. I can’t help it. I enjoy staring at women’s asses. If you’re a chick and you know me, I’ve likely checked out your butt.

5. People are actually surprised to learn that I’m kind of a nerd (it’s the tits..society conditions us to think boobs and brains don’t go together). I’m a trivia junkie and read about sixty books a year. I’m also a grammar Nazi. I’m the one everyone calls when they want the definition of something or they want something spelled properly.

6. My love of comic books has been well documented, but unless you’ve visited my apartment you probably don’t know that I also collect figurines and toys. My collection is almost complete. I’m searching for the perfect Wolverine bust, a Yoda bust and an official Star Wars light saber. Then I’ll be satisfied. I think.

I’m a geek as well (yes, there’s a difference but that would take a whole post of it’s own to explain).

7. I love to drink scotch. A nicely aged single malt served neat… no ice, no water.

OK here’s the tag part. I tag:

Tess

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– the only woman on the internet with cleavage comparable to mine

Twanna – the coolest, funkiest brown chick I know

Tammy – aka Pinkie aka my little sister. She’s not a sex blogger (she’s way too good for that, unlike her older sister) but is equally awesome in her own right.

The Fury – Because I get moist whenever there’s something new from him in my feed reader

Os About a Boy trailer – because he’s awesome and I want to know more about him

Bad Bad Girl – my new girl crush

Mollena - my other new girl crush

The second behind the scenes video will be released a week before our launch party.

You ARE coming right? Because I hear if you purchase your calendar at the party, you get to spank a certain Lusty Lady.

So here’s the video. Huge thanks to Dacia Art School Confidential release for filming this.

I’d taken the long way so that I could enjoy a few extra minutes outside as the weather was nice.

Now, I walk quickly. And there are few things I detest more than being stuck behind slow ass people.

I was coming up on a group of school kids loitering on the sidewalk. There was a narrow strip of concrete between them through which one could walk.

No problem. Two decades of living in New York City have made me an absolute pro at effortlessly navigating tight, crowded spots without so much as breaking my stride.

There was a man walking in the opposite direction, toward me.

I glanced at him. He wasn’t very tall, only somewhat taller than me. He was muscular. He wore a t shirt and some jeans. Well built, sexy. Black. Bald. Only passing observations.

We hit the crowd of teenagers at about the same time.

I did not slow down and neither did he. There wasn’t enough room for the both of us to walk through them side by side.

I turned sideways and kept walking. He did the same.

We grazed one another as we passed through the crowd, my nipples brushing roughly against his chest. They stiffened and immediately I felt tingly between the legs.

I didn’t slow down, didn’t turn back to look at him.

But it had me going crazy the entire day.

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On our sides, facing each other, you take my face in your hands and kiss me.

We kiss, deeply and intensely for a long time.

I feel your hand reaching into the elastic waist band of my pajama pants. Your fingertips find my clit. You were always so good with your fingers. No man had ever made me come with just his hand before you.

I’m moaning softly into your mouth and suddenly I have an overwhelming urge to feel you.

“Enter me,” I whisper softly.

You either don’t hear me or ignore me and keep kissing.

“I want to feel you inside me,” I whisper again, a little more loudly and little more desperately this time.

You stop and look at me. I pull my pants down to show you I mean business. In one motion, you get on top of me and part my legs with your knees, legs I hungrily wrap around you. You look at me while you slide in, never taking your eyes from mine.

“I love the way you feel inside me.”

“I love it when you look at me while I’m fucking you,” you say. “Big beautiful brown eyes.”

Your pace quickens. Your stroke lengthens. You fuck me. Slow, but hard.

“I love you, girl”

“Say it again.”

“I love you.”

“Again.”

“I love you.”

Your voice breaks with that last one. You’re on the brink, I can tell.

“I want you to come inside me.”

And as if on command, as if that was just what you needed to hear to put you over the edge, your face twists and you begin to make guttural, almost whimpering sounds.

I squeeze.

I feel your cock throb and then I feel the hot bursting.

I’m not supposed to admit that I love that. I’m not supposed to talk about how good it feels.

But I do and it does.

You collapse on my chest and I wipe the sweat from your brow.

“Intense huh?”

“Totally.”

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